Dating in the 21st century...
Dating in the 21st century...
Women today are OVEREXPOSED... it's scares me. Naked and available women are everywhere, on TV, movies, online or offline, on the street... on billboards everywhere.
It seems like men have more access to seeing, touching, and getting to know and explore more women than EVER IN THE HISTORY OF MANKIND....
Once upon a time, men never had such kind of exposure... women were a real challenge a mystery. Women were not all over the city walking around almost half naked... one who SPECIAL is the who isn't overexposed.... I will say this again! Less is more...when you show a man everything, there is nothing to look forward to... Does that mean men have no responsibility to be modest too? Of course! I see a lot of men these days walking around with boxers showing... that's not the way to get attention from anyone. Ok, back to the ladies...Your body should be delightfully mysterious. A man should be FORCED to step up and WOO you as a woman in order to let you know he even exists.
If he doesn't step up and become a suitor, then he has no chance... and it's only you that can make this happen by the way you behave and talk. (Looks don't count here... because you can be pretty and make the most crazy mistakes with men).
Let his hard work and efforts indicate to you that he is ready, able, and willing to offer you the most and do whatever it takes to make you happy.
But unfortunately, today, men do not have the incentive or urgency to STEP UP and ask a woman out. With easy access to women using technology, a guy can email and message a woman any time of the day or night, and get an INSTANT response.. Women are literally at their fingertips.
Not only do they have women's attention and virtual company anytime they want, they can also have multiple women’s undivided attention simultaneously. If a guy is tired or bored of one, he can switch to another. He can even assign them their individual time slots for what's app/skype chatting so he never feels lonely for a minute...
And talk of non-stop Facebook feeds, there are ever new faces and bodies to check out to bring aboard to entertain him. But this is all it is for time-wasters like him... ENTERTAINMENT.
But the question is... Do you want to be a source of his entertainment for any man?
If not, don’t be at his fingertips. Don’t return those meaningless texts and messages. Let him get NOTHING from you in return. Not even a smiley face... Let him remain single, if he wants to be entertained.
The Bad News:
All that exposure and easy access to you as a woman is causing men to become passive and lazy... at 65 he is still looking for someone to marry. He can be because female attention takes no effort and he’s thrilled beyond belief how fun it is because women are just a what's app away on a device.
The Good News:
Such men tend to be scared of relationships or are unequipped to be in one, so therefore, they automatically disqualify themselves and do you a favor! Yes, it's better to be single than in a relationship that's not going anyway.
So if you ignore these men, YOU ARE BETTER OFF.
Fortunately, not all men on this planet just want to be entertained "smile" Many still do want a long-term relationship and want to get married. Many aren’t afraid of emotional intimacy, and they want to love and are ready to. The Only Catch Is… you may not know where to find such men.
Don’t ignore red flags only to pay for it later. And pay for it dearly!
TEN WAYS TO MARRY THE WRONG PERSON
#1. You pick the wrong person because you expect him/her to change after you get married.
#2. You pick the wrong person because you focus more on chemistry/looks than on character.
#3. You pick the wrong person because the man has a good job..being a doctor doesn't make him the one!
#4. You choose the wrong person because you do not share a common life goals and priorities.
#5. You choose the wrong person because he lives in the area you like...
#6. You pick the wrong person because you do not have a deeper emotional connection with this person...
#7. You pick the wrong person because you choose someone with whom you don't feel emotionally safe.
#8. You pick the wrong person because you don't put everything on the table... like not mentioning that you have kids.
#9. You pick the wrong person because you use the relationship to escape from personal problems and unhappiness...
#10. You pick the wrong person because he/she is involved in a triangle... (married)
Here's the thing: If you are unhappy and single, you will probably be unhappily married, too. Marriage does not fix personal, psychological and emotional problems. If anything, marriage will make them worse:-)
Wife School...
What image are you engraving in your husband's mind" Smile"according to the many complaints of many husbands they say things like:
"Every day she walks around with her hair tied in some old black torn tights."
"Every time I get home, she is wearing some pants and an old cleaning T-shirts."
"She never makes an effort to look attractive for me, even when we leave the house... it's really embarrassing." Yet when going to kitchen parties, most women stand in front of the mirror for countless hours! Hun, here is a little secret a wife and a husband spend a lot of time home
together, your home is the very place where you should look very attractive for your husband... because that's where your image is formed in his mind. You don't want him to have an image of you always in those torn sweat pants... do you? No thanks. But sadly, most women think they have to look less attractive at home: -) and welcome their hard working husbands in cleaning clothes... serve dinner in shabby clothes and Reserve the best clothes for strangers.
To Christian wives, "smile" The bible says, The wise woman builds her house, But the foolish tears it down with her own hands.( Proverbs 14:1) Stop being deep spiritual ...minister to your husband when he gets home...being deep in the things of the Lord and not knowing when to be spiritual an cause a lot of problems...In short, being a proverbs 14:1 is simply means knowing when to read your bible and when you should carter to your husband as in know when it's time to throw on that cute lingerie. No, but he is still on punishement for the next 4 days...No dear one, he is not your child...he is your husband. Pray when he is at work and when he get back stop and attend to him... Minister to that man! For more you can enroll in the KRA wife school.
And to all the husbands...A good man never stops trying to show a woman how much she means to him, even after he's got her. He respects and appreciates her. He never cheats and does not hurt her. He never makes her heart broken..
