26 GOLDEN RELATIONSHIP RULES
1. When you keep calm as a lady, it drives men crazy... keeping him thinking that there is some thing peculiar about you.
2. When he sends you an abusive message, do not reply back with abusive words, as a high value woman your reply should be. "I'm sorry" Or "thank you" and end there...
3. No man likes to be talked back to. If you must be a wife material, just shut up. When he is calm, talk things over...
4. Don't be arrogant, be humble...
5. Don't be carried away by your beauty. Haven't you seen plenty of beautiful ladies that are still single? Your good character keeps him.
6. Do not compare him with your EX. There are thousand of other ladies out there. Forget about the past, you are a new creature, old things have passed away... don't let the old occupy your new space.
7. Don't always be at the receiving end, buy him something, no matter how small, whether he has thousands of them, just buy it, yours is unique... because it's from you: -)
8. Pray for him, that's the only way to keep a man close to your heart...
9. Respect him and his family members... (insulting his mother is a BIG NO, remember--she gave birth to him for You. Better be thankful)
10. Be a good cook, learn how to cook something. Some ladies can't even fry eggs...
11. Call him when you have airtime... don't always wait for him to call.
12. Value yourself, and he will value you...
13. If he doesn't have today does not make him poor, look at what drives Him...
14. Look out, if he is a time waster or he is for real...
15. Can he "fight" both physically and spiritually for You?
16. Where is he in God's presence or is he on the other side?
17. Don't confuse love making with true love. Read 1 Corinthians 13:4-8
18. What you can't change in HiM, now that you are dating, am sorry in marriage you won't be able to change it either, or you will spend the rest of your life trying to change him.
19. You are dating and he punches you at every Slightest misunderstanding... Sorry, when you marry him, your bedroom will be a "changing room" and your sitting-room a "boxing Ring"
20. Every little time, he threatens to break up with you. You start crying, if you leave me, I will die... oh I will do this and that..Really? Just in case you didn't know any man who be lucky to have you, but you have to believe it for yourself!
21. Above all. Ask yourself! What is GOD is saying about this Relationship? May God open your eyes if you are already into one, and if you are still searching May God lead you in Jesus name....
22. Genesis 2:22... and Brought her to the man. It's ONLY God who can BRING you to your Husband. Fill your life with Prayer. Let His light shine in you because that's what attracts a GOOD husband not your mini skirt.
23. If you are going to make Love with the person you Love so much, do it wearing the safest thing - A wedding ring.
24. You may look pretty when you look at yourself, you see Brazilian hair,pretty nails and your lovely skin, but you have no idea of the Dirt that is in your spirit...deadly soul ties. Say No to sex... safe sex is AVOIDING it completely.
25.You don't need a new boyfriend whose better than your ex, it's only JESUS that you need... There is a cleaning that has to take place in you, motivational world cannot clean you, going to church doesn't mean you are clean, but the Blood of the one who died for you, Jesus Christ is the only one who can do justice to you.
26. Don't be angry because someone rejected you. Sometimes, rejection is God trying to protect you... so be thankful
And lastly, my advice to the under 30's
14 THINGS YOU SHOULD DO BEFORE YOU TURN 30 YEARS OF AGE
1. Begin to put money in the bank and learn to leave it there... 2. Date the right person... (Get the book... Dating with a Purpose) 3. Get your own place, stop having roommates... 4. Get out of debt... 5. Step Out of your comfort Zone 6. Surround yourself with people that will take you a step ahead... 7. Start to accumulate a fortune and wealth... 8. Learn to dress WELL not sexy... 9. Accept that you are an adult and act like it... 10. Let go of the past and look forward to the future.. 11. Practice Psalm 119:133 (Missing one step can take you 10 years backwards) 12. Trust God with Your Life He can do more with it than you can... 13. Read Acts 3:19 Surrender Your Life to God.... REPENT is the Word... 14. Don't leave for the one who comes to Steal, Kill and Destroy John 10:10 say YES to the LIFE giver Jesus...
