5 Things to Remember When Love Goes Wrong...
5 Things to Remember When Love Goes Wrong
Why is it so easy to cry because of somebody instead of crying for somebody... listen, usually when somebody hurts you so bad it reveals the struggle within. So instead of getting mad at what they did to you...you should have compassion for them and pray for them.
Me personally, I always see rejection as protection from what’s Not meant to be...Listen, you are already accepted by God, you are not trying to get people to accept you. So no one can reject you if you know your identity in Christ. I hope I am not confusing you, but it is that simple! No one can reject you...period. Your life should depend on God and not people. A divorce or someone dumping you doesn’t mean you aren’t good enough...it means the other person failed to notice what you have to offer...so matter what you do a blind man can't see the colour until his sight is restored. And that's what we are trying to do, we are trying to force people who are spiritually blind to see the good in us...impossible! It's a blind man telling you that you are ugly and yet they can't see...would you honestly hurt by that statement? I don't think so...why? The guy is blind...end of story. So the guy who didn’t call back, a runaway husband/wife job that didn’t pan out, business loan rejection letter are all signs that it God has something better for you.
When you give yourself to someone who doesn’t respect you, you surrender pieces of your soul that you will never get back. You might feel unwanted and unworthy to one person, but you are priceless to God. Don’t ever forget your worth. Sometimes you have to walk away from people, not because you don’t care, but because THEY DON'T. When someone hurts you time and time again, accept the fact that they don’t care about you. It’s a tough pill to swallow, but it’s necessary medicine for you. Very Important!! Crying over someone simply for what they look like on the outside is like choosing your favorite food based on color instead of taste. It makes no sense...it's like chewing on hot peppers all day long because red is your favorite colour...think about! Choose what's GOOD for YOU!!
1. Everything in Life is Temporary... Every time it rains, it stops raining. Every time you get hurt, you heal. After darkness there is always light ...and you are reminded of this every morning, but we often forget, and instead CHOOSE to believe that the night will last forever. It won’t! Every morning, God gives you a new beginning and a new ending. You get a second chance, every second. You just have to take it and make the best of it. 2. Life’s Little Surprises... Cherish life’s surprises and sometimes, it could be a broken relationship and just because it’s not what you were expecting, doesn’t mean it’s not everything you have been waiting for. So take a deep breath when you are rejected from something good. It often means God is redirecting you to something better... just flow with God and not against God. 3. Challenges Strengthen You... Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in life. If we were to go through our life without any obstacles, we would be crippled. We would not be as strong as what we could have been otherwise. So give every opportunity a chance... leave no room for regrets. It takes courage to change and grow and become who you really are because you can't grow with and succeed until you get comfortable with being uncomfortable.
4. Experience Life in All Possible Ways... The good and the bad, the bitter and the sweet, the dark moments and the light moments, the summer and the winter. Don’t be afraid of experience, because the more experience you have, the more life you truly live, and the more clearly you understand just how beautiful it is. 5. What’s meant to be will eventually, BE... True strength comes when you have so much to cry and complain about, but you prefer to smile and appreciate your life instead. There are Blessings Hidden in every struggle you face, but you have to be willing to OPEN your heart and mind to see them. You can’t force someone to love. You can only drive yourself crazy trying. At some point you have to let go and let what’s meant to be, BE...by simply trusting God. That's it!
It’s a long-term journey. You have to stop worrying, wondering, and doubting every step of the way. Laugh at the confusion, live consciously in the moment, and enjoy your life as it unfolds. You might not end up exactly where you intended to go, but you will eventually arrive precisely where God wants you to be...he will bring the right person for you at the right time. But the secret lies in you becoming love...God is love and if you allow Him to live in you, it will be easy to for you to love somebody. So when you cry, cry the tears of transformation...let God transform you and you will never cry for another failed relationship.
