The Problem with my husband is.......
Never begin your sentences like that if you are married ...learn to bless your husband. Remember, there is power in the tongue the words we speak are not just simple words, they have power to create. So stop having those husband bashing conversations with your girlfriends. Instead, start speaking blessings over your marriage and change the direction of your marriage. Look for reasons to bless and celebrate your husband...though male bashing may be common among your friends, be the first one to stop it. Bring an atmosphere of love if there is hate in your marriage by speaking the word...I mean the word of God not just any other word. No matter how bad your marriage is, when you begin speaking blessings over your life. No weapon formed or being formed against you shall prosper. Remember, this is your marriage you have to do something about it...if you want to stay married. This is not entertainment, it's a moment for you to change from inside out. Married women, enough for today...let me get back to my single ladies. But you are welcome to join the Proverbs 3:15 women on the move...
Love should be easy! People who have a solid identity in the Lord can't be shaken by dateless droughts or never ending wedding invitations in the mail. Why? Because they are complete and whole in God and they know that if God himself said, " it is not good for man to be alone" ( Gen 2:18) then there is no need to panic because others are getting married. Don't stand on your ever changing feelings but stand firm on the word of God that never changes.
Remember, don't be so consumed in finding someone to meet your needs and give you a sense of significance that real living has taken a back-seat. I know nothing beats that magical experience of being in love and living happily ever after, but please don't life pass you by...
Have a life! When you have a life of your own, you attract others and because you have a life of your own you will be interesting to your partner, having something to offer and not totally depending on your partner to make you happy or meet your emotional needs.
