Single ladies, dating is like slow dancing...

Always let the man take the lead. I know sometimes it can be hard especially in the world of three-minute abs and one-minute microwave meals...it's no surprise that we want everything including our relationships to move at lightning speed. But truth be told, sometimes we run into other people's arms because of lack of identity and sense of self. And the problem is we are busy fixing the external-our hair, lashes, face, body, clothes and careers to give us a sense of self-worth..forgetting that it's the internal that matters the most. See, you can't put a band-aid over a huge wound. You can be stylish and driving a BMW and still be miserable and lonely. Why? The answer is simple, we focus on externals to try to fix the internals. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with that, but if you ONLY look to those things to give you a sense of self-worth, you will forever be searching because self worth is not something you can buy from the store...you already have it! And the devil cannot take it away from you. Embrace the fact that you are created in the image of God and have unchanging value. Accept yourself and love yourself...even the bible in Matt 22:39 says, love yourself as your neighbor. Self love is a must...because when you love yourself, you will no longer be interested in men or women who ignore you, cheat on you, hurt you emotionally... lonely Saturday nights, no more waiting for his text messages or phone calls.