Fear of Losing his interest??

Ladies pay attention to what I am about to say... when you are afraid he will Never contact you again, you will be more likely to initiate and be too available... When you are afraid he will meet someone else, you will be more likely to tolerate BAD treatment in order to keep him around... When you are afraid he will lose interest, you won’t be able to be a DIAMOND a Proverbs 3:15 woman. You will become DESPERATE...

There are ZERO BENEFITS in being afraid of losing a guy. I mean what EXACTLY are you LOSING?

A guy who can’t step up?

A guy who doesn’t cherish you?

A guy who can’t be bothered?

A guy who isn’t around enough?

A guy who uses you for sex?

A guy who never returns your calls/texts?

A guy who lets you do all the work?

A guy who can’t commit?

A guy who is in and out of your life?

A guy who cheats on you?

A guy who is not honest with you?

A guy who thinks you are not worth the chase?

A guy who never takes you out?

The only thing you should be afraid of is Getting a guy who can’t cherish you...read that again! Other than that, there is NOTHING to be afraid of. You see, everything he does or doesn’t do is INFORMATION that you can use to assess what to do next. If he doesn’t take you out on dates, he’s letting you know he’s not valuing you.

If he doesn’t Express Love and Affection, he’s letting you know he doesn’t need to in order to keep you. If he doesn’t step up and make you his Fiancee/ WIFE, he’s telling you he wants to be available for other women.

When this is what you see and hear, it’s time to PULL BACK. Time to give him SPACE so he gets to experience what it’s like without you and give a chance to a man who knows you are worth having a RING on your finger. You are better than being a FOREVER girlfriend.

You don’t want to waste time with the Wrong guy, right?

So don’t be afraid to do what it takes to see what he’s made of. That could be the ONLY WAY you will ever know if he deserves YOU... Jacob worked seven years for Rachel, and they seemed like only a few days to him because of his love for her. Genesis 29:20