A Breakup can be painful... but it can be a Blessing too!

A Breakup can be painful... but it can be a Blessing too!

If you have ever been gone through a bad break-up you know the pain that comes with a sudden unwanted breakup. It doesn't matter if the relationship was 2 weeks old or 10 years, it can leave one heartbroken and confused. If have been cheated on, dumped for no good reason, brokenhearted by that special person who was your everything, who taught you what love is, the one you cared for so much, someone who meant the world to you… then keep reading because this is about to change your life. Sometimes a break-up can leave someone entertaining weird thoughts like wanting to take his/her own life simply because they refuse to move on or to see the brighter side of a break-up.

Every time you cry about that person or fail to sleep ask yourself these questions: If the person who left me was the right person for me now why did he or she make me cry and even leave me for no good reason? Is he or she also failing to sleep and eat just like me or s/he is out there having fun with other new people? Is that person stressed like me? Does h/she feel any pain just like me? Does that person miss me at all? After answering all these questions... get down on your knees and ask God to give you the strength to move Forward... underline the word Forward. Moving forward means, you will move forward mentally as well... it means you have to stop playing that negative tape in your mind trying to blame yourself for what took place and what never took place. It will take Renewing of your mind in order for you to move forward in order for God to bring that special someone in your life who was truly meant for you. No bad relationship is a loss you just gained some wisdom out of this mess...look at it as God preparing you for that special someone who will appreciate everything about you...someone who will love and care about you. So at this very moment, stop over calling, texting, pleading and crying for your ex to come back and create space for the person God is preparing for you...not every person that leaves our lives is a loss. Some leaves to create space for good people entering into our lives. You may be crying right now, but very soon you will be crying tears of Joy because what God has for you will not only make you smile, laugh or excited but you will also shed tears of Joy. You will get over that pain with time and you will find someone who is worthy your heart. But you have to trust God that one day your life will be different and your ex may even want you back in his/her life but it will be too late. Finally, no one goes into a relationship hoping it will end one day...we all want to get married someday and have a fabulous wedding. But there's no telling what the relationship might bring in our lives...just when you think you have found the love of your life and suddenly the other person wants out of that relationship...what do you do? Tie the person up or glue them to make them stay. Unfortunately, no super glue can make someone stay... A break-up can leave your heart heartbroken and feeling confused. But sometimes, it's in our brokenness that we find out who we really are and what we deserve. Psalm 34:18 says, the Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crashing in spirit. When it comes to a breakup...there are so many emotions involved anger, loneliness, feelings of rejection...but no matter what happens, you should always remember that you are not alone God is there with you and in order to speed this grieving process and make it as short as possible you must acknowledge his presence and allow him to whisper words of life into your spirit. For now, Relax! Don’t rush to fall in love again. Give yourself time, know yourself better, enjoy the stress free single life as you are preparing for someone better. Nothing, just happens! Read more in upcoming book---How to Turn a Breakup into a Breakthrough.