False Indicators of a Man’s Interest

Don’t assume a man is interested because….

He is staring at you.

He smiles or winks at you.

He dances with you all night long.

He enjoys having conversation with you.

He is always nice to you.

He helps you with something.

He compliments you.

He buys you a drink.

He loves having sex with you.

He gets your phone number.

He promises he’ll call.

He texts you or chats with you online.

He took you out on a date once — last year.

So don’t get all starry-eyed and giggly about him, analyzing him in ten ways with five friends.

Face the truth: NONE of this is PROOF he is interested in you.

The ONE and ONLY PROOF is if he plans dates and courts you, as in becoming a SUITOR.

Not somewhere in the past or maybe in the future, but in REAL TIME as in now.

THEN he warrants being talked about.